Patrick had always answered the call to help others without hesitation. On that fateful day, he ran into a burning home to save lives, but the structure collapsed on top of him. His face and upper body were engulfed in flames.
“My mask was melting to my face,” Patrick recalled. “My hose had already melted.” The memory was seared into his mind. His friend and fellow first responder, Jimmy Neal, later told CBS News, “I’ve never seen anyone so badly burned still alive.”
Patrick suffered third-degree burns across his entire face and scalp, as well as his neck, head, and upper torso. His lips were gone, most of his nose was destroyed, and he lost vital eyelid tissue.
“I didn’t even see myself until November,” he shared in an interview with Fox News. “I got injured in September. They had cut a small pinhole in one eyelid, just enough to peek through. When I saw my reflection, I thought, ‘This is it? I can’t do this.’”
Over time, Patrick underwent more than 70 surgeries and medical procedures. Doctors even created flaps of skin to protect his eyes, as he could no longer close them on his own. The risk of going blind was constant.
Everyday life became a battle. Eating was agonizing. He avoided mirrors. People stared wherever he went. Even being around his own children was difficult.
To shield himself, Patrick always wore a baseball cap, sunglasses, and ear prosthetics. “I had kids. It was just a hard time,” he told Yahoo! Sports. “There was no break from the injury. Walking in public—every single day—it was just overwhelming.”
“You’d go to a ball game and have to prepare yourself for the kid who might scream and run away.”
At one point, Patrick gave up hope of ever living a “normal” life again—until he learned about a French woman named Isabelle Dinoire, who had received the world’s first partial face transplant after being attacked by her dog. That story lit a spark of hope in Patrick.
He connected with Dr. Eduardo D. Rodriguez of NYU Langone Medical Center, who promised to do everything possible—if a matching donor could be found. Eventually, LiveOnNY, a nonprofit that coordinates organ donations, located a match.
David Rodebaugh, a 26-year-old man, had suffered a fatal head injury in a bike accident and was declared brain-dead. His face would become Patrick’s new face.
David’s mother, Nancy Millar, made the courageous decision to donate her son’s organs—including his face. “I said, ‘You better save his face—he had the face of a porcelain doll,’” Nancy told People. “And he was a registered donor. We had talked about it.”
She hoped her son’s legacy would live on in others. “When I met Patrick, I saw strength—the same strong energy David had. He wanted to be a firefighter too,” Nancy said. “I knew that Patrick had the same courage David did.”
The transplant was performed by a team of over 100 medical professionals and lasted an astonishing 26 hours.
There was a 50/50 chance Patrick would survive—but he made it. He received a new face, scalp, ears, ear canals, and eyelids, giving him the ability to blink naturally and preserve his eyesight.
“When it’s your time to go, you go—whether you’re walking down the street or lying on the operating table,” Patrick reflected.
Once the swelling subsided and Patrick re-learned how to speak and swallow, he met Nancy—the woman whose selfless decision gave him a new life. She had one heartfelt request: to kiss his forehead.
“I said, ‘Can I kiss your forehead?’” Nancy recalled. “That’s what I used to do every night before David went to bed.”
“I’ve been waiting a year to meet her,” Patrick said. “I’m just so grateful. Without her, none of this would’ve been possible. She feels like family now—we connected instantly.”