Autumn Bushman was a lively 10-year-old just a month ago. Her parents characterized her as bold, affectionate, and vivacious.
However, the Bushman family’s world fell apart on March 21 when Autumn committed suicide at their Roanoke, Virginia, home. Her parents claim that the bullying was unrelenting and unabated.
How things took a tragic turn
Her distraught parents claim that Autumn’s problems started when, while in the fourth grade at Mountain View Elementary School, she defended her classmates from bullying.
Rather than being commended for her bravery, Autumn was singled out next.
According to reports, the bullying started last August when Autumn started the fourth grade.
She was one who would defend others who were being harassed or harassed. And regrettably, that might have led to her becoming the focus of additional bullying,” Autumn’s mother, Summer Bushman, told WDBJ.
Although her parents knew that Autumn was being bullied, they claim that in the last few weeks of her life, things took a tragic turn.
It started with small adjustments that had deep significance in retrospect. Once brimming with energy and laughter, Autumn began dressing in darker hues. Her dazzling smile dimmed. She started to distance herself from the world she had so boldly embraced, slept more, and played less.
“I didn’t see anything that told me something was seriously wrong,” Mark Bushman remarked.
But in the final weeks before, it did appear to lessen her brilliance.
“May I please skip school and stay at home?”
The pair claims that after they informed school officials about the bullying, they received assurances that the matter was being handled. However, Autumn’s parents now feel that their attempts were insufficient.
Autumn’s mother, Summer Bushman, stated that she had previously discussed suicide awareness with her older daughters, who are aged 12 and 17. But she never thought she would have to talk to her daughter, who is ten years old, about the same thing.
Summer said, “She came to me crying a few weeks ago and she was really upset.” “You know, Mom, I’m just, I’m really stressed out,” she remarked. Someone is bullying me. Would it be possible for me to skip school tomorrow?
The stress was too much for Autumn. Mark, her father, voiced his sadness and aggravation at not being able to keep his daughter safe while she was in school.
“I am unable to attend school. I am also unable to referee. And that, I believe, is the problem,” he continued. “We entrust our children to the schools for a number of hours each day, and I’m concerned about how closely the schools monitor them. Are they actually discussing it with the females and acting upon any necessary corrections?
Autumn Bushman, age 10, was sadly discovered dead in her bedroom on March 21.
Her passing shocked the Roanoke community and devastated her family. The local school administration announced that it is beginning a thorough investigation into the circumstances leading up to the tragedy as condolence letters flooded in.
“We are doing a comprehensive examination, but we are unable to share the specifics of this incident because of federal privacy rules and out of respect for the family. “All reports of bullying and student conflicts are taken very seriously by our schools,” the school said in a statement.
However, the answer is too little, too late for Autumn’s loved ones.
Even if it may seem premature, the Bushmans are encouraging other parents to remain vigilant and have candid discussions with their children regarding bullying and mental health. Summer clarified that Autumn was not allowed to use social media, but she was allowed to have a phone. Nevertheless, the ongoing strain and anxiety from school managed to get in.
At the end of March, Autumn’s funeral was held. In an effort to spread awareness and spur significant change, her family invited everyone in the neighborhood to attend the service.
In a stirring Facebook post, her father, Mark Bushman, called on communities and parents to join forces in the battle against bullying.
“A community must come together to put an end to bullying; individuals working alone cannot accomplish this. If we concentrate our efforts on creating the new rather than battling the old, significant change will result. Through responsibility and good resources, both at home and in the educational system, let’s give these children a life worth living,” he wrote.
As word of Autumn’s terrible experience spreads throughout the globe, her story has touched the hearts of many people and will continue to do so. Over the past month, the whole Roanoke community has come together in support of her family, with many individuals actively speaking out against bullying and giving heartfelt comments.
Moments from Autumn’s childhood, including dressing up in costumes, laughing outside, and growing up in what seems like the blink of an eye, are captured in a touching video tribute that was posted on social media. Cher Nelson Johnson, a family friend, posted the video and a heartfelt statement in remembrance of her.
On a post that featured a video of Autumn growing up, she wrote, “So heartbreaking.”
Check on your people.
This picture shows a young, kind, and loving person who committed suicide today as a result of bullying. Too soon, a lovely Roanoke girl is gone.
During this terrible time of loss for her 10-year-old daughter Autumn Brooke Bushman, will you kindly put Summer Bushman and her family in your prayers? See how your people are doing. Talk about bullying with your kids. Ending bullying is vital!
Autumn’s parents have made it plain from the start that they are sharing her story to remember the amazing kid she was and to raise awareness of the terrible effects of bullying.
According to Summer and Mark Bushman, their daughter was a lively, vivacious person who brought joy to every space she entered. She cherished archery, cheerleading, and dancing. Baby blue was her favorite hue. But more than anything else, Autumn’s generosity and large heart were what really set her apart.
They now hope that her legacy will be one of compassion, change, and a renewed dedication to ensuring that no kid ever experiences loneliness.
Experts now advise kids to tell adults at home and at school if they are being bullied. Parents, pay attention. Observe. Take action.
Because often the most important cries are the quietest ones.
To access online chat from the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, visit 988lifeline.org or call or text 988 if you or someone you know needs mental health support right now and you live in the United States. This is a confidential, free crisis hotline that is open to everyone, every day of the week. To locate a helpline in your area if you are abroad, visit www.befrienders.org.